time constraints!

I did some experimenting last night at a local pub, to see if time constraints are really as important as people make them out to be. Let me tell you right now, they are! I opened 7 diffrent sets, with a decent range of of hb7's to hb 9's, and each time I made the time constraint I could feel the calm over the girls. They wern't worried, their guard was down.

So from now on, time constraints are a must in your opener. If you dont believe me go open a few sets without giving yourself a time constraint then open a few whilst giving one, you will actually see and 'feel' the diffrence. Here are some examples:

"…. ok i need your opinion real quick, my friends are waiting for me …. blah blah operner"

"I only got a couple minutes but here let me show use something….blah blah"

"the guys are waiting for me, so ill show you something real quick .. blah blah magic dhv or something"

So simple.

Enjoy

-Sleek 

challenge her shit tests

More and more i have realised that David DeAngelo's cocky funny is an excellent attraction builder. Challenging a woman's beliefs is the best way to get her attention. At University, the women have this mentality that they are smarter than you, even if you may attend that same university. For example here is some dialogue I used with this hb8 at university, she was throwing shit tests at me left right and center and with each test I successfully challenged, I could 'feel' her leaning in closer.

Remeber, this is all in good fun, you can't say this without a little spark in your eye, or a little half-smile.

HB8: God I hate it when guys come up to me, and I can so tell they're so just looking at my chest.
Me: Obviously you can't tell very well, because I've had a few glances myself.
HB8: *Shocked*
HB8: Well it sucks, all guys want is my body and stuff, they dont want to get to know the real me.
Me: Take it easy? Dont you get it?(This is de-validating her) Guys are biologically programmed to look at a womans body as a method of choosing a good mate. If you really want to meet a guy who only wants to be attracted to your personality, stop wearing makeup, wear the daggiest clothes you can find and wait for Mr Right.
HB8: *Double Shock Overload*
Me: *Shit tests passed*

That's some simple dialog that before I had got into the scene would have failed to pass. So remeber, cocky-funny, if you want to find some good lines to use, watch some re-runs of sitcoms that have the classic traditional male vs femenist female, for awesome one-liners. Or you could go the golden source, to the king of one liners and a true american hero. Al Bundy from married with children.

Well Enjoy!

And remeber Have FUN!

-Sleek

Im back! And lets talk about some inner game…

Ok I'm back from a lengthly hiatus from the scene, caused by university exams and other little challenges life throws at us. Expect MANY more posts, and a new massive project I am going to undertake in. But more on that at a later time. I wanted to talk about something now, that I had heaps of trouble grasping when I first began my journey, and I am sure most people have had.

The thing that stopped me most from going out an approaching women, especially ones that I thought had higher value than me(HB10's etc.) was that I was scared that they would find me 'uncool' from their position. I always had a massive yet fragile ego, I talked my self up, but was scared to put myself under fire.

However I remeber reading something that completely changed my way of viewing the world,  it all stemmed from the simple yet super effective concept, "You must level the playing field", that is you have to think of everyone as equal, and not judge them on their material possesions (Hot Cars) , or their physical beauty, but as who they really are. Ok I know it sounds corny as hell but trust me, if you can get yourself to look at people who appear to be of 'higher value', and you truly see them for who they really are (a person of equal value to you), you immediatley level your playing field with them and sound infinitley more confident. Don't believe me? Try it out, next time your in a situation where you have to communicate with someone who 'appears' to have a 'higher' social status than you, zone it all out, imagine that they are a blank canvas and build your perception of them on your communication with them.

Soon you will realise that you begin to believe that you are 'better' than these people, and because of this, they will believe it too. 
Well enjoy, and expect to hear from me soon.

Sleek.